MARRIAGE SUTRAS AND BONDS; Human beings;

MARRIAGE SUTRAS AND BONDS

INDIVIDUALS ELIGIBLE AND THEIR QUALIFICATIONS FOR GETTING MARRIED

Marriage is for those who can take responsibility.

Marriage is not a pastime. Marriage is a sincere and serious obligation.

Marriage is not a stepping stone to get divorce. Marriage is not the initial and prime action to apply for divorce.

Marriage is for those who can bear inconvenience.

Marriage is for those who can transcend ego and live for family.

Marriage is for those who can love and serve.

Marriage is for those who can withstand the vicissitudes of life together and support the spouse and other family members.

Marriage is between two families not merely between two individuals.
Marriage is for those who can adjust.

Marriage is for those who want to have offspring and are ready to suffer sacrifices in bringing it up with responsibility and loving care.

Marrying is not doing favour to others but doing favour to oneself.
Marriage is not being subservient to spouse but sharing happiness and unhappiness of all family members and being a psychological pivot to them and to self.

Marriage is not for those who see it as a burden or discomfiture.

Marriage is opposite of divorce. Marriage is a life long togetherness.

It is marriage which sustains the society providing physical and psychological care, well-being and welfare through all phase of human beings for human beings. Mother (wife) and father (husband) are two chief, essential and loving supports to marriage.

Marriage is for those who willingly, voluntarily and joyfully take forward family culture and traditions.

Marriage is for those who are happy to be hosts to friends and relatives.

Marriage is for those who are ready and do not mind for compromises.

Marriage is not for those who have high degree ego and individuality.

Marriage is for those who can take living together and life with spouse and other family members as a meditative spiritual journey.

Marriage is for those who can love be loved.

Marriage is for those who have common sense and are wise.

Marriage is for those who are willing to cook and undertake other household chores.

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Human Beings

A human being is known and characterized by his thoughts and feelings only.

A human being is a psychological being; not a physical being.

Thus the physico-chemical and physiological aspects of human being are essential in categorizing an individual. They are reflected as psychology. Mind is man/woman. There is no human being sans considering one's thoughts and feelings.

Also a human being is Divine if one is beyond one's mind, one's thoughts and feelings - the ego.